Overall Update

Behavior has become more trying recently. The other day I turned a movie on for Christopher but I apparently did not do it correctly so he decided to "beat me up". He was hitting, kicking and yelling. At this point I was in disbelief at his behavior. We have not had to deal with aggression very often. When he would have a tantrum it was typically very short and he would quickly move on to something else. However, the behavior has crossed into the classroom and he is hitting the students and staff. This is a behavior that has to stopped now. We know the reason for the behavior. He isn't getting his way or is frustrated with something. Even though this is typical for small children we have to be on high alert because I know what it can lead to. Things that other parents can correct or know the child will grow out of can not be handled haphazardly for us.

I have constantly tried to stop behaviors that were a higher risk for him. I try to keep him from getting into too many routines or rituals. We are fortunate to not have to deal with meltdowns as often as others. However, when in the car, Christopher thinks he should be navigating. There are so many times he yells "that way" and it isn't the way we are going. This is often followed by some kicking and screaming. Christopher may get into a routine of stepping on certain blocks on the sidewalk or having to use a particular interest. I have been able to move past some of the ritualistic behaviors.

We are noticing more of the "autistic" behaviors recently and the school reports they see them consistently too. This behaviors include: spinning, flapping, and elusive eye contact. There are probably more but those are the biggest ones. Christopher has some good strengths too. He has a friend at school that he will play with but still prefers to play alone. He also shows affection and emotions. At home, hugs are usually prompted by a request; kisses are much harder to get and to give.

His verbal skills continue to improve but I'm questioning my decision to slack off on his alternative communication. The other day he wanted something and I had no clue. We finally got him to use his PECs to say "red" and he was saying a number that I can't recall now, but we never figured it out. I may need to consider purchasing the communication device for the Kindle Fire after all.